herthoughtsherjourney asked: Just started following you a few days ago... Hiii! 😌 Any advice on how to get over being rejected (by someone u really liked)?
Hai, my darling 😁.
The feeling after being rejected is a byproduct of biased expectations. How you eliminate that feeling of your heart being in your throat, that empty chested hurt, the almost inescapable pangs of over-analyzation is to not have expectations. Talk, date, see guys, but don’t create the idea in your head that it is supposed to work out. Broaden your concepts of meeting someone new; get comfortable from the beginning that there is a sizable possibility that it doesn’t work out. When you become over-concerned with making it work, you actually fuck it up more…you do and say weird things. Be non-chalant, work for the relationship to work, but once you put in to a certain extant, let the other person do the same. Give them a chance to show their true colors. You’ll be fine, love. Just weather the storm, and the next cute guy you run into, keep it chill. 😊
I do not want to talk about my problems.
I do not want to tell you my insecurities.
Things that trouble me.
I think about these things too much myself.
If telling you will not help, then you do not need to know.
I hate when people think “opening up” is the solution to everything.